Merry Christmas

I’m opening Christmas cards this morning. They are gifts from you to me. Thank you!

I am encouraged by your news, your sweet photos, your additions to family, and your faith. Bless you in 2024!

This will be a sort of Christmas letter to you. I work later today, at the hotel, and Cherie is working this morning. Ed is helping Grandma with washing dishes from last night’s Smorgasbord with Joe and his family.

My granddaughter and grandson blessed me last night—they are incredibly sweet and fun to be with!

I get to see my eldest grandson tomorrow.

It is the first time ever that I have been alone on Christmas day. But I know I am blessed. Things happen and you must accept them. It takes time to do so.

I have Corwyn and Yukichan here to keep me company. The cats have been in and out, in and out on this brown Christmas. Do you know how warm it is here? Amazing. We’ve had a warm December!

I am thankful. I haven’t had to plow, to shovel, to worry about icy roads!

My fire is on, and I am brewing tea in a beautiful mug that my brother and sister-in-law in New York got me for Christmas. My niece gave me some raspberry cookies, and I think I will splurge with them for breakfast.

Cookies for breakfast. I am a fan.

We had the traditional Smorgasbord last night: meatballs, potato sausage, rice pudding, Christmas cookies.

I got a visit from my brother-in-law and sister-in-law from Iowa last week, too, which was an extra boost! I hope to get down to Iowa to visit Brian’s family this week if weather cooperates.

Yesterday I received beautiful renditions of “Silent Night” from my Chinese friends. I was touched.

My sprained foot/ankle colored my week of preparation. I am much better, but the pain is still there and it frustrates me that I can’t take the dogs out for a walk.

My lack of exercise since our trip to Japan is lamentable. Must make some serious New Year’s resolutions!

Two of my cousins have passed away recently. This is always sobering. This year one of my aunts, and my last uncle passed. A distant relative who was a great friend to my mom and a real true supporter of Corgi Hollows passed away this fall, too. Sadness for my mom and me. Another relative passed two days ago. I am trying to accept this new era of my life. We all must face it as we approach old age.

I am blessed that my mom is in great health. I can see that she is gracefully slowing down. I am so blessed that Ed and Cherie are here with me, helping with things she needs.

Such a blessing!

Thanks for stopping by this Christmas. I felt that many of you did via cards and greetings. I am grateful for your friendship, your love, your support.

Count your blessings. Name them, one by one. See what the Lord has done!

MARANATHA!

Give You, Give Me

I’m listening to a Chinese artist these days, Mao Bu Yi, who has a pretty, soft voice with sweet songs. This blog post title is one of his prettiest songs. It’s about growing old and relationship.

Songs help me learn the language. It is hard to find particular songs without knowing some of the characters in the title. It is sleuthing at its best for a language learner like myself.

The Christmas/birthday season is upon Corgi Hollows. Cherie and I have been decorating, culling decorations that we haven’t used for awhile, finding the essence of our memories in others.

Whether or not you celebrate Christmas, this end of year holiday serves as a time marker. I have a little notebook with a Christmas Chickadee on the cover that I keep as a Christmas journal. I only write about the Christmas in it, whatever I can remember, menus, gift ideas, gifts received (I have such a bad memory about that!)

I haven’t sent Christmas cards in so long. I love getting them, but the tribulations of the past few years have thwarted my own sending.

Tribulations.

I fell carrying Christmas stuff last week and badly sprained my foot/ankle. I couldn’t walk for a day, but a little boot really did the trick for helping me get mobile. I’m supposed to be “off it” for a week at least.

I still hurt.

Falling at age 60 is not falling at age 30. I got a taste of what the end of my life may be like, alone with the dogs and cats. My pups were immediately on top of me…concerned? !

That is why I pray for the Rapture!

Then on Sunday night the downstairs once again flooded with water. I have battled water in this house since we moved in. Cherie said yesterday, “Let’s just build a swimming pool downstairs, Mom.”

I was able to get a plumber to come and help us yesterday afternoon. It’s actually a major problem which requires tearing up the concrete floor and replacing corroded iron pipe.

We’re looking at major.

Tribulations.

Right now the downstairs bathroom will be out of commission until this summer when more excavating can occur.

I guess it had to happen?

Sometimes you wonder. I am at the mercy of the experts. I have no clue how to deal with things like this, so I’m ripe for being taken advantage of.

I have trust issues to begin with. Dealing with “professionals” who are also strangers is somewhat uncomfortable for me.

I cherish the friends that have helped me, particularly with past water problems, and the water heater which broke the same week Brian left us. Such wonderful friends came and helped me with these tribulations. Also my septic system.

I will always be grateful for that help that horrible time after Brian passed away. Great is your reward in heaven!

Since we have an older house I should expect maintenance issues. In Japan they must rebuild stuff every 40 years, says Ed. Earthquake regulations require constant monitoring of buildings housing millions of apartments and offices.

This house is about 70 years old. I guess major repair is to be expected. Regardless of earthquakes. Minnesota is the most geologically stable land on earth. We have blizzards and tornadoes.

I’m thankful I can run next door to use the facilities while Corgi Hollows undergoes major repair. What a blessing! Count your blessings!

Also, here in Minnesota it is a very warm winter. It’s easy to be outside and get around. No snow yet. Another blessing for me, though of course everyone seems to want a White Christmas!

It’s the season of gift giving. What can I give you? I can only assure you that God is sovereign. God won’t leave you even though things are HARD. Because of my own Job-like experiences I have been gifted with this knowledge on a deeper level. Even when you question Him, feel frustrated with His plan for you, weep, the underlying truth is that He cares for you.

Jesus is Lord. He is the Christ. God is love. God provides. God is a Father to His children, a husband to the widow, the faithful one who does not leave us alone. He will never leave nor forsake us believers.

Keep praying. Keep trusting. Keep waiting and watching.

MARANATHA

Before I forget

Cherie and I have checked our notes a few times, and even if she is 20-something and I am 60-something we both had some discord about our schedule in Japan. The days are in danger of becoming a blur with stark impressions and moments of clarity.

At least we have those!

I left off at the day we were to go to Kyoto, but I wanted to mention that we walked into the Ginza area to see the high-end shops on Tuesday, too.

We found a book store that had a display of Tasha Tudor stuff! I guess she is (rightfully!) popular in Japan! She is the reason I love corgis!

Wednesday morning we got up really early and subwayed to Tokyo Station, found the bullet train to Kyoto and began quite the adventure.

We were offered picture perfect views of a snow-clad Mount Fuji from the train. It was even blushing in morning sun. This is a moment of clarity I will keep in my mind.

There is nothing like seeing something in person that you have seen photos of all your life. Remember those “viewmasters” we had in the 60’s ? (Perhaps before that….) We had one disc with shots of Mount Fuji. This is also a memory of clarity for me.

Arriving at Kyoto presented a challenging mission: find a temple garden that had been recommended by our savvy friend. There are dozens (hundreds?) of temples and gardens in this historical city. It was formerly the imperial capital of Japan, before Tokyo. The architecture and the setting of this town is quite mesmerizing.

We purchased day passes on the Kyoto transportation: unlimited bus and subway for the day. It seemed to be the way to go with our limited time there. We bussed to the Nanzen ji temple, spent a couple of hours walking around the extensive grounds. There are several gardens in that area.

After that we found a little hole-in-the-wall restaurant that served both udon and rice bowl—delicious and inexpensive. It was on a back alley, far from the crowds.

On to the subway, off to the old Imperial Palace.

This, for me, was a highlight of the trip. Such a beautiful garden, gorgeous buildings, and a nice shop to buy souvenirs. Such kind people!

Cherie wanted to find a “real” tea shop, so we searched for such a place on Google and made our way there. After walking all day, up and down hill (Kyoto is nestled between mountains) I conked out and waited patiently on a street while Ed and Cherie found the tea shop. That was their adventure.

My feet were ACHING after this day.

I ate something called “omurice” at the train station in Kyoto before we caught our train back to Tokyo. This is a combo of omelette and rice—fixed Japanese style.

It’s good.

The cake at this place was just delicious. Kiln-baked—caramel, whipped cream, soft—-!

The ride back to Tokyo was in the dark. Only flashes of light were seen on occasion.

Surprise! Nine o’clock at night Tokyo is ALIVE with young people! I couldn’t believe the masses of people at Tokyo station that evening!

We were exhausted, so we subwayed home to Shiomi, Koto and slept well that night.

Thursday: still tired and foot sore, we took the subway to the bay area, a large park on the bay. There are several sights and attractions at this spot: an aquarium, a historical structure that is like a massive piece of art with the history of the area archived, a large Ferris wheel, and a few gardens and bird sanctuary.

This garden was also enticing. It seemed so private. Only a large crow joined us in this space.

Friday we made it back to Shibuya area for some more shopping and a ramen stop. After that we took the subway to the Hama Detached Palace Garden which was built by a Shogun long ago.

We enjoyed tea and a Japanese sweet with ceremony in the “floating tea house.” Ulysses S. Grant was entertained at this place once.

Quiet peace and beauty amidst the skyscrapers of Tokyo…a delightful surprise.

Ed stood next to an aloe that dwarfed him in the garden here. Tokyo is surprisingly tropical! Surprising to me, at least. Things can grow all year long.

We made an executive decision to walk back from the palace garden that evening. Wow.

Through the fish market area, over multiples of bridges (Tokyo must be like Venice!) and finally back to our hotel after seeing stunning views of the night cityscapes. We could see Tokyo Tower, the Sky Tree, and, of course, many skyscrapers all lit in colorful lights.

Many Christmas lights were glowing as well.

Tired, but we had enough energy to pack everything for the journey home the next day.

Because of our bargain-basement air fare we flew back through Montreal and Chicago on our way to Minneapolis. We knew it would be a long trip, and it was. We left for Narita airport at 1:00 pm from our hotel, after a luscious buffet breakfast there.

We took a taxi to Tokyo Station, an express bus to Narita Airport from there.

After checking in we had quite the wait for our flight to Montreal. More time to try a few Japanese foods.

With a nine-hour layover in Chicago we had chatted about driving home, but it really wasn’t bad spending the night at O’hare.

We were back in Minneapolis before 9 am!

Would we go back to Japan?

Can’t wait!

Some impressions of Japan, for me: people. People, people, people!!! Business people! Suits (“salarymen”) and women, uniform fashion—golden tan wool coats, touches of lime green. black, navy, white shirts and blouses.

People well-groomed and well-heeled, polite (to a fault!) and reserved.

Icy professionals, strong and capable women.

Friendly restaurant employees.

“Arigato ogesimus” –it rang out like lines from a play. People seemed to be performing a grand production.

The air was crisp and cool. It was fall. Flowers were still in bloom many places. We had beautiful weather. It only rained one morning.

Clock-like efficiency, hoards of moving people, small children dressed in darling little uniforms.

Clean.

Delicious food.

Politeness.

In all our time there we never connected with a Japanese person personally. No conversations or sharing of our lives. I did talk to a German woman at the Imperial Gardens in Tokyo, and we connected.

It seems awesome that in a city of 37 million people one foreigner couldn’t meet one native and share a bit about life.

I was told that people are shy.

I was impressed by the loneliness.

Perhaps I imagined this? It was just an impression.

Still, I felt a peacefulness there, even if it wasn’t spiritual. I know there is spiritual darkness in Japan: only 1 million Christians among 130 million population.

That is darkness.

There is something awesome about Japan.

They do life well—efficiently, effectively, productively, cleanly.

I can see that they think they are fine without God.

Pray for Japan.